Part of the shadow side is that they can short-circuit very easily and shut down because it's just too much stimulation. Jaiya explains that sometimes, 'There's so much sensation that they short-circuit. People with an energetic erotic blueprint are very sensitive and can quickly become overwhelmed and overstimulated, causing them to shut down and disassociate from their partner.
However, they can become easily distracted and lose arousal quickly should their safety connection feel broken. Anything that makes them feel safe is a big turn-on: eye contact, soft whispering in the ear, affirmations of love, and even matching breathing and in-sync body movements. Because they love teasing, they become easily aroused and may have multiple orgasms. Energetics are intuitive lovers they pick up on the energy around them and connect with their partners on a deeper level.
